When playing the game of seduction, establishing mutual tactility is important. Your success rate in picking up women may very well depend if you can establish physical closeness with them. Some women are just not that easy to let you play the game. Some women do not respond well to your being touchy with her. So how do you go about this situation? How do you proceed seducing girls without appearing disrespectful?

Often men just go for it and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness.

Some men will not risk putting a girl off so they do not go about touching them. With this, men are misconstrued that they are not interested, when in fact they are; they are misconstrued to be timid to make the move, when in fact they are really not. To avoid being thought of by girls to be either of these categories, how do men proceed then?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore dont appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that youre a confident guy whos not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, lets take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.

The outside of a womans arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time its a clear-cut sign that youre a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Dont be afraid to give it a try ” youll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once youve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, its important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport youve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called Stealth Tactility to do this.

Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesnt know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?

Many men think that the hard works been done once somethings been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

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