It\’s simple when you know the rules, not so simple when you don\’t. If you do learn the rules and you play by them, you are guaranteed what you want in life. If I asked you why you want anything in life, what would you say? You\’d always come to the same conclusion; to feel better than I do at the moment. You may also be coming to realise that unless you can make steady movement towards what you want in life, you will not be joyful.
The bad news is that you can never regress in life and be a happy person. When you have identified something that you want, you have to move towards that goal or you will feel not feel joyful. Life causes you to expand, to want more, to become more than you were before. You may keep up with this expansion and you may not, it is really up to you. Some go along with the expansion willingly, and live happy lives as a result. Others are more reluctant as they feel the tension between their desires and the life they are living, and they inherently know they should be the expanded evolved person they want to be. If you have powerful desires in life, and fail to keep up with them, you may choose to numb out the pain with some kind of behaviour or substance, or you may choose to end the pain and your life, by checking out early.
Some people who fail to keep up with their expanded selves come to the conclusion that the trick is to limit their own desire, as that was what they concluded was causing the pain in the first place. It wasn\’t desire per se, just their inability to keep up with their desire. They might become spiritualists who declare that one should want for nothing, and that the lusting after material possessions is wrong. Whatever they decide, it is their inability to keep up with their life\’s work that causes their pain, and they can only be truly joyful if they follow their dreams.
The majority of people do not understand how to play this game called life. In their dis-empowered state they seek to control the circumstances and events of life to feel better, creating laws, rules and regulations from their place of powerlessness. If they understood the rules and were self-empowered, they would start to realise that they need not feel fearful of any other person, because they would understand how they get what they get. They would stop trying to think, and they would feel their way through life.
It may sound paradoxical, but the only way to become self-empowered is actually to relinquish attempted control of the outside world and look inside yourself for answers instead. By seeking and attaining control of the way you feel (the only thing you truly have any control over), you are living the unconditional love that so many spiritual teachers through the ages have spoken of. Unconditional love says \”I\’ll feel good regardless of what the conditions are, and I will love you regardless of what you might do or how you might be, because it feels natural to be loving towards you, and \’off\’ to be unloving towards you. I direct my thoughts in a way that I feel good. It may seem like a sacrifice, but I am doing it for me, not for you.\” Conditional love says \”When I see things I like, I feel good and when I see things I don\’t, I don\’t. So I need you to behave in a way that pleases me, never mind what pleases you.\” So how can we live unconditional love and free ourselves and others to live joyous lives? By giving people the benefit of the doubt. By accepting that people are doing their best, by accepting that most of them don\’t know the rules, and likely couldn\’t hear it if we spoke it to them. By being who we really are; love.
Sadly the majority of people get socialised into listening more to others than to their own inner voice and strength, as those who surround them look to control the behaviour of the outside world so they can feel better. This is unfortunate, because the only truly important thing for you to do whilst you\’re here in this physical life experience is to stay feeling good. How you feel is crucial; it determines everything that comes to you in life. In order to get to the point where you can control the way you feel, and therefore what comes to you in life, you need to have a greater understanding of your emotions, and why they are so important
What are the rules of this game we call life? Page one: How does life relate to you? Are you getting what you want in life? What determines one person\’s success or personal achievement over another\’s? How do some people live charmed lives while other struggle and seem to get nowhere? Is life all about luck or chance, and do we need to redistribute the world\’s wealth to make things more even? How is it possible to make sense of such a large and complicated system?
There are a lot of questions here. But where to begin? Firstly, stop trying to think your way out and start to feel your way along the path. Your emotions are more powerful guidance than you probably realise; and if you can understand and use them effectively, they will guide you towards everything that you want in life. Anyway, before we talk about emotions, let\’s talk about the Law of Attraction.
The Law of Attraction is the manager of all things. All things are vibrational, not just here, but everywhere both physical and non-physical. And it\’s fair to say that if you are going to have a joyful life, you probably would benefit from understanding how it works. Law of Attraction matches up like and like things. The expression \’Birds of a Feather Flock Together\’ is a demonstration of the law. We attract to us things which are of similar essence? But similar in what way?
Think of yourself as a radio tuner. Any time you think a thought (which is all the time unless you\’re asleep or meditating) you are tuning into a thought frequency, which law of attraction is matching up with like things; similar thoughts come at first, then similar things. You may have heard people say \”Be careful what you wish for!\” If you give your attention to any one thing for an extended period of time, and you will start to attract the essence of that thing into your life. You have tuned into a frequency which you will now start to see in your life. Things you give you attention to briefly start showing up everywhere as you have tuned into that frequency. It\’s not that they weren\’t there before, they were always there, it\’s just that you see them because you\’re on their frequency. High, bright, happy thoughts have a high vibrational frequency, and low, sad, depressing, angry thoughts have a lower frequency. The energy of your source vibrates at a very high fast pure vibration. If you dip to the low vibes, you will feel the difference between you and the source, God part of you.
So how does Law of Attraction apply to the real world? If I behave \’as if\’ I\’m successful, will I become a success? Well, not necessarily. The Law of Attraction matches you up with things which match the way you feel about \’those subjects\’ in your life. If you feel successful, then Law of Attraction will match you up with situations which feel that way. If you only act or use words to pretend you are successful, but you still feel like a failure, then you cannot achieve success until you start feeling successful. You might even be a success in the eyes of others, but not in your own eyes. Feel the way you want to be, and let Law of Attraction bring you everything you want.
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